Mofanana ndi amayi, ntchito ya atate ndi yotopetsa ndipo nthaŵi zina ngakhale yokhumudwitsa, kulera ana.Komabe, mosiyana ndi amayi, abambo nthawi zambiri sazindikiridwa mokwanira ndi udindo wawo m'miyoyo yathu.
Iwo ndi opereka kukumbatira, ofalitsa nthabwala zoipa ndi kupha nsikidzi.Abambo amatisangalatsa pamlingo wathu wapamwamba kwambiri ndipo amatiphunzitsa momwe tingagonjetsere malo otsika kwambiri.
Bambo anatiphunzitsa kuponya mpira kapena mpira.Titakwera galimoto anatibweretsa kusitolo matayala athu akuphwa ndi mano chifukwa sitinkadziwa kuti tayala laphwa ndipo tinkangoganiza kuti chiwongolero chavuta (pepani bambo).
Kukondwerera Tsiku la Abambo chaka chino, Greeley Tribune amapereka ulemu kwa abambo osiyanasiyana mdera lathu pofotokoza nkhani za abambo awo komanso zomwe adakumana nazo.
Tili ndi abambo aakazi, abambo azamalamulo, abambo osakwatiwa, abambo opeza, abambo ozimitsa moto, abambo akulu akulu, bambo wachinyamata, ndi bambo wachinyamata.
Ngakhale kuti aliyense ndi bambo, aliyense ali ndi nkhani yakeyake komanso momwe amaonera zomwe ambiri amazitcha "ntchito yabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi".
Tinalandira ndandanda zambiri za nkhaniyi kuchokera kwa anthu ammudzi, ndipo mwatsoka, sitinathe kulemba dzina la bambo aliyense.The Tribune ikuyembekeza kusintha nkhaniyi kukhala chochitika chapachaka kuti titha kunena nkhani zambiri za abambo mdera lathu.Choncho chonde kumbukirani abambowa chaka chamawa, chifukwa tikufuna kuti tithe kufotokoza nkhani zawo.
Kwa zaka zambiri, Mike Peters adagwira ntchito ngati mtolankhani wa nyuzipepala kudziwitsa anthu aku Greeley ndi Weld County zaumbanda, apolisi, ndi zina zofunika.Akupitirizabe kulembera Tribune, amagawana malingaliro ake mu "Rough Trombone" Loweruka lirilonse, ndipo amalemba malipoti a mbiri yakale pagawo la "Zaka 100 Zapita".
Ngakhale kuti kukhala wotchuka m’deralo n’kothandiza kwa atolankhani, kungakhale kokhumudwitsa kwa ana awo.
"Ngati palibe amene anganene kuti, 'O, ndiwe mwana wa Mike Peters,' sungathe kupita kulikonse," adatero Vanessa Peters-Leonard ndikumwetulira.“Aliyense amawadziwa bambo anga.Zimakhala bwino ngati anthu sakumudziwa.”
Mick anati: “Ndiyenera kumagwira ntchito ndi bambo nthaŵi zambiri, kucheza pakati pa mzinda, ndi kubwerako pamene zinthu zili bwino.”“Ndiyenera kukumana ndi gulu la anthu.Ndizosangalatsa.Bambo ali m'ma TV kuti amakumana ndi anthu amitundu yonse.Chimodzi mwazinthu. ”
Mbiri yabwino ya Mike Peters ngati mtolankhani idakhudza kwambiri Mick ndi Vanessa pakukula kwawo.
Vanessa anafotokoza kuti: “Ngati ndaphunzirapo kanthu kwa bambo anga, ndi chikondi ndi kukhulupirika.“Kuchokera kuntchito mpaka kwa abale ake ndi abwenzi, uyu ndi iye.Anthu amamukhulupirira chifukwa cha kukhulupirika kwake polemba, kukhala paubwenzi ndi anthu, komanso kuwachitira zinthu zimene aliyense amafuna kuti azichitiridwa zinthu.”
Mick ananena kuti kuleza mtima ndi kumvera ena ndi zinthu ziwiri zofunika kwambiri zimene anaphunzira kwa bambo ake.
“Uyenera kudekha, uyenera kumvetsera,” anatero Mick.Iye ndi mmodzi mwa anthu oleza mtima kwambiri omwe ndimawadziwa.Ndikuphunzirabe kukhala woleza mtima ndi kumvetsera.Zimatengera moyo wake wonse, koma wazidziŵa bwino.”
Chinthu chinanso chimene ana a Peters anaphunzira kwa bambo ndi mayi awo n’chimene chimapangitsa banja kukhala labwino komanso ubwenzi wabwino.
“Adakali ndi ubwenzi wolimba kwambiri, ubwenzi wolimba kwambiri.Amamulemberabe makalata achikondi,” adatero Vanessa.“Ndikanthu kakang’ono kwambiri, ngakhale munthu wamkulu, ndimaziyang’ana ndikuganiza kuti ndi mmene ukwati uyenera kukhalira.
Ziribe kanthu kuti ana anu ali ndi zaka zingati, mudzakhala makolo awo nthawi zonse, koma kwa banja la Peters, pamene Vanessa ndi Mick akukula, ubalewu uli ngati ubwenzi.
Atakhala pa sofa ndikuyang'ana Vanessa ndi Mick, ndizosavuta kuona kunyada, chikondi ndi ulemu kwa Mike Peters kwa ana ake awiri akuluakulu komanso anthu omwe akhala.
"Tili ndi banja labwino komanso banja lachikondi," Mike Peters adatero m'mawu ake ofewa."Ndimawanyadira kwambiri."
Ngakhale kuti Vanessa ndi Mick akhoza kulemba zinthu zambiri zomwe aphunzira kwa abambo awo kwa zaka zambiri, kwa bambo watsopano Tommy Dyer, ana ake awiri ndi aphunzitsi ndipo iye ndi wophunzira.
Tommy Dyer ndi eni ake a Brix Brew ndi Tap.Ali ku 8th St. 813, Tommy Dyer ndi bambo wa okongola awiri a blonde-3 1/2 wazaka Lyon ndi Lucy wa miyezi 8.
"Titakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna, tidayambitsanso bizinesi iyi, motero ndidayika ndalama zambiri m'njira imodzi," adatero Dell.“Chaka choyamba chinali chovuta kwambiri.Zinatenga nthawi yayitali kuti ndingozolowera utate wanga.Sindinadzimve kukhala atate kufikira pamene (Lucy) anabadwa.”
Dale atakhala ndi mwana wake wamkazi wamng’ono, maganizo ake pa nkhani ya utate anasintha.Zikafika kwa Lucy, kulimbana kwake kovutirapo komanso kuthamangitsidwa ndi Lyon ndichinthu chomwe amachiganizira kawiri.
"Ndimamva ngati mtetezi.Ndikuyembekeza kukhala mwamuna m’moyo wake asanakwatiwe,” adatero uku akukumbatira mwana wake wamkazi.
Monga kholo la ana aŵiri amene amayang’ana ndi kuloŵerera m’chilichonse, Dell mwamsanga anaphunzira kukhala woleza mtima ndi kutchera khutu ku zolankhula ndi zochita zake.
"Chilichonse chaching'ono chimawakhudza, chifukwa chake muyenera kutsimikizira kuti mukunena zolondola," adatero Dell.“Ndi masiponji ang’onoang’ono, choncho mawu anu ndi zochita zanu n’zofunika kwambiri.”
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe Dyer amakonda kuwona ndi momwe umunthu wa Leon ndi Lucy umakulirakulira komanso momwe amasiyana.
Iye anati: “Leon ndi munthu waudongo, ndipo ndi wosokoneza, wathupi lonse."Ndizoseketsa kwambiri."
“Kunena zoona, amagwira ntchito molimbika,” iye anatero.“Masiku ambiri sindimakhala panyumba.Koma ndi bwino kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza nawo m’mawa n’kumakhalabe ndi maganizo amenewa.Uku ndi kulimbikira kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi, ndipo sindingathe kuchita popanda iye.
Atafunsidwa kuti apereke malangizo otani kwa abambo ena atsopano, Dale ananena kuti abambo si chinthu chomwe mungakonzekere.Izo zinachitika, inu "kusintha ndi kuzilingalira izo".
Iye anati: “Palibe buku kapena chilichonse chimene mungawerenge.“Aliyense ndi wosiyana ndipo zinthu zimakhala zosiyana.Chifukwa chake upangiri wanga ndikudalira malingaliro anu ndikukhala ndi achibale ndi abwenzi pafupi ndi inu. ”
Ndizovuta kukhala kholo.Amayi osakwatiwa ndi ovuta kwambiri.Koma kukhala kholo limodzi la mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi kungakhale imodzi mwa ntchito zovuta kwambiri.
Cory Hill, yemwe amakhala ku Greeley, ndi mwana wake wamkazi wazaka 12, Ariana, akwanitsa kuthana ndi vuto lokhala kholo lolera yekha ana, ngakhalenso kukhala bambo wa mwana wamkazi.Hill adapatsidwa mwayi wokhala ndi mwana pamene Ariane anali pafupifupi zaka 3.
"Ndine bambo wamng'ono;"Ndinamubereka ndili ndi zaka 20.Monga maanja ambiri achichepere, sitinachite masewera olimbitsa thupi pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana,” adatero Hill.“Amayi ake sali m’malo oti angawasamalire bwino, choncho n’zomveka kuti ndiwalole kuti azigwira ntchito nthawi zonse.Imakhalabe m'boma ili.”
Udindo wokhala tate wa mwana wocheperako umathandizira Hill kukula mwachangu, ndipo adayamika mwana wake wamkazi chifukwa "chomusunga chilungamo ndikumusunga tcheru".
Iye anati: “Ndikadapanda kukhala ndi udindo umenewo, ndikanachita nayenso zinthu zina."Ndikuganiza kuti ichi ndi chinthu chabwino komanso dalitso kwa tonsefe."
Kukula ndi mchimwene wake m'modzi yekha komanso wopanda mlongo woti angatchule, Hill ayenera kuphunzira chilichonse chokhudza kulera yekha mwana wake wamkazi.
“Pamene akukula, zimandipangitsa kuphunzira.Panopa ali paunyamata, ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zocheza ndi anthu zomwe sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire kapena kuyankha.Kusintha kwa thupi, komanso kusintha kwamalingaliro komwe palibe aliyense wa ife adakumanapo nako, "atero Hill akumwetulira.“Aka ndi koyamba kwa tonsefe, ndipo zitha kusintha zinthu.Sindine katswiri m'derali - ndipo sindinanene kuti ndine katswiri."
Pamene mavuto monga kusamba, bras ndi nkhani zina zokhudzana ndi amayi zibuka, Hill ndi Ariana amagwirira ntchito limodzi kuti athetse, kufufuza zinthu ndi kukambirana ndi abwenzi achikazi ndi achibale.
"Ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi aphunzitsi apamwamba m'sukulu yonse ya pulayimale, ndipo iye ndi aphunzitsi omwe ali ogwirizana amamuteteza ndikumupatsa udindo wa amayi," adatero Hill."Ndikuganiza kuti zimathandiza kwambiri.Akuganiza kuti pali akazi pafupi naye omwe angapeze zomwe sindingathe kupereka.
Mavuto ena amene Hill amakumana nawo monga kholo limodzi amalephera kupita kulikonse nthawi imodzi, kukhala wosankha yekhayo komanso wosamalira yekha.
“Mukukakamizika kupanga chisankho chanu.Mulibenso lingaliro lachiwiri loyimitsa kapena kuthandiza kuthetsa vutoli, "adatero Hill.Nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta, ndipo zimawonjezera kupsinjika maganizo, chifukwa ngati sindingathe kulera bwino mwanayo, zonse zili kwa ine.
Phiri apereka malangizo kwa makolo ena omwe akulera okha ana, makamaka abambo omwe apeza kuti ndi makolo okhawo, kuti muyenera kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli ndikuchita pang'onopang'ono.
“Pamene ndinalandira ulamuliro wa Ariana koyamba, ndinali wotanganitsidwa ndi ntchito;Ndinalibe ndalama;Ndinachita kubwereka ndalama zochitira lendi nyumba.Tidalimbana kwakanthawi, ”adatero Hill.“Izi ndi zopenga.Sindinaganizepo kuti tingapambane kapena kufika mpaka pano, koma tsopano tili ndi nyumba yokongola, bizinesi yoyendetsedwa bwino.Ndi zopenga kuchuluka kwa kuthekera komwe muli nako pomwe simukuzindikira.Pamwamba."
Atakhala mu lesitilanti ya banja la Bricktop Grill, Anderson anamwetulira, ngakhale kuti maso ake anali odzaza ndi misozi, pamene anayamba kulankhula za Kelsey.
“Bambo anga ondibereka salipo m’moyo wanga.Iye samayitana;sayang'ana, palibe, ndiye sindimamuona ngati bambo anga," adatero Anderson.“Ndili ndi zaka 3, ndinafunsa Kelsey ngati angalole kukhala bambo anga, ndipo iye anati inde.Iye anachita zinthu zambiri.Nthaŵi zonse ankakhala naye, zomwe zinali zofunika kwambiri kwa ine.”
Iye anati: “Ndili kusukulu ya pulayimale ndiponso m’chaka changa chachiwiri ndi chachiwiri, anandiuza za sukulu komanso kufunika kwa sukulu.Ndinkaganiza kuti akufuna kundilera basi, koma ndinaphunzira nditalephera makalasi angapo.
Ngakhale Anderson adaphunzira pa intaneti chifukwa cha mliriwu, adakumbukira kuti Kelsey adamupempha kuti adzuke m'mawa kuti akonzekere sukulu, ngati amapita m'kalasi yekha.
Anderson anati: “Pali nthawi yokwanira yoti timalize ntchito ya kusukulu n’kukhala osangalala.